How to Get Clear About Anything: The 3 Magic Questions

Yesterday I posted about being offered James Caan’s Bentley rocket car and being undecided about it. I said it was an example of not being clear.

Today I made a decision about his car.

How did I resolve it?

How did I get clear?

I basically asked myself three questions:

1. What would I do if I weren’t afraid?

2. What would I do if money were no object?

3. What would be better?

Those three questions helped me on a cognitive level, but freed me on an emotional level.

Once I’ve answered one or more of those questions in a ruthlessly honest way, I’m able to clearly see my real desires, and then take action.

Said another way, once I’m clear of the snags in my thought process, I can connect to my internal guidance system and go with the flow again.

So, after running through the questions, I decided I didn’t want Jimmy’s car.

After all, if money were no object, I’d buy a brand new Bentley GT.

And what would be better than Jimmy’s used car would be a new Bentley made for me.

And what would I do if I weren’t afraid, I’d tell James Caan, “No, thanks. I’ll order a new Bentley of my own.”

And yes, I already contacted two different Bentley dealers. (There’s a two year waiting list for these beauties.)

There you have it.

The entire struggle to make a decision was cut off at the knees once I honestly answered the above questions.

You might try them on your next dilemma.

Later, when I took a nap, I dreamed that Jimmy’s car was no longer stuck half way down my driveway.

Ao Akua,

Joe
www.mrfire.com

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