“Affirmations don’t work for me.”
“That’s an affirmation, you know.”
“Huh?”
“Affirmations are anything you affirm as true,” I explained. “You can affirm something positive or something negative.”
“Say what?”
“You said ‘Affirmations don’t work for me’ which is an affirmation that affirmations don’t work for you.”
“I don’t follow.”
“You get what you believe and expect,” I explained. “If you believe affirmations won’t work for you, then you will get the experience of affirmations not working for you.”
“But they really don’t work for me!”
“I know. That’s because you are affirming that they don’t work.”
“You’re confusing me!”
“Look, the meaning you give an event is the belief that attracted it. If you feel affirmations don’t work, then you are attracting experiences to prove that affirmations don’t work. If you switched it, you could attract proof that affirmations do work.”
“But how would I do that when my mind says they don’t work?”
“That’s simply what you currently believe,” I went on. “It’s your current habit of thinking. But you can begin a new habit by beginning a new thought process today.”
“It’s that easy?”
“It’s simple but maybe not easy,” I said. “But you can begin right now.”
“Affirmations do work?”
“That’s a start.”
Ao Akua,
Joe
PS – You can see your beliefs more clearly when you have a trained objective person helping you. Consider http://www.MiraclesCoaching.com
Jimbo Berkey bought one copy of my new album, Reflection, and then went back and grabbed 5 more copies.
Five more?
I asked him why.
He said —
“After putting Dr. Joe’s ‘Reflection’ disk
into the car player my search for music that
would lift me up and put a smile on my face
was over. With world class instrumental music
in the background playing toe-tapping tunes,
I can hear words that will make me a better
person as they seep from my conscious mind
into my unconscious mind and help me to keep
my thoughts on the ‘right’ side of the
universe all day long.“I quickly ordered five more copies . . .
why five? Well, my original copy is the one
I will wear out in my car cd player, and
three of the five copies I will gift to
friends that I think have an enlightened
spirit and will recognize them for the
treasure that they are . . . and the
other two? I will keep them in their
original wrapping in a special place
with my rare coins and original
Humphrey Bogart/Lauren Bacall movie
poster because I am convinced that one
day these copies of Dr. Joe’s ‘Reflection’
will be valuable far beyond their cost.”
Apparently this new album is connecting with people of all ages.
Arames Castro is an 18 year old who listened to it and said —
“I’m sure you can imagine the excitement and
anticipation I began to feel as I realized
this is exactly what I’d been searching for.
I like to think of listening to it as “comfort
food for the soul.” My current favorite track
is ‘Reflection.’ The lyrics especially are
freakin’ awesome!”
And Rabbi Neil Schuman said —
“I find your music an uplifting review of
your teachings.”
And publisher Victoria Belue Schaefer said —
“What an amazing new CD you’ve created!
“It has shades of David Byrne and Brian Eno,
to me, which I’m wondering if was intentional
because Eno was quoted in the beautifully
produced CD booklet.“The powerful lyrics and modern jazzy-inspired
melodies blew me away.“The songs Love, Believe and Merlin are great,
but the song Remember was phenomenal! I’ve never
heard positive affirmations to music like that.
Wow! Wow! Wow!“And what about the song Do? Good grief. Rock monster
with nothing but empowering lyrics. We all need to
play this on a loop when we want to get – and stay
motivated.“I do believe you have created a new genre of music.”
I love all this positive feedback, of course.
But you need to decide for yourself how much you love the music and which songs are your favorite.
You can hear samples of all the tracks and grab the CD (which comes with a collectible, limited edition booklet, and with a surprise gift) over at http://www.ReflectionCD.com
Go see (and listen).
Enjoy!
Ao Akua,
Joe
PS — Previous healing music albums —
http://www.HealingMojoMusic.com
http://www.GetUpandStrut.com
http://www.AtZeroMusic.com
http://www.AligningtoZero.info
http://www.HealingRockMusic.com
http://www.ReflectionCD.com
http://www.TheHealingSong.com
Coming – http://www.432toZero.com
ZZ Ward is one of my favorite singers. I met her last year and gave her a copy of my book, Life’s Missing Instruction Manual. She read it and sent this to me (used with her permission):
“Hello Joe! I just wanted to let you know that I love “Life’s Missing Instruction Manual” the book you gave me at my concert! I read it every day, and I’m buying copies for all of those close to me!! It’s an amazing book and probably beats out the art of happiness for me which is also a very inspiring book. Any ways I just wanted to let you know!! Thanks again. – ZZ”
Thank YOU, ZZ!
I met a man on a plane once who told me he buys copies of Life’s Missing Instruction Manual, hides a one hundred dollar bill inside each, and gives them out to people who graduate or have some other milestone.
As the author, you know I like hearing this. 🙂
You can get the book (printed, Kindle, or audio version) at Amazon or wherever books are sold.
http://www.amazon.com/Lifes-Missing-Instruction-Manual-Guidebook/dp/111865966X/
Just sharing. 🙂
Ao Akua,
Joe
PS – Be sure to check out ZZ Ward’s music at – http://www.zzward.com
Back in the early 1980s, my wife and I got up at 4 am every Sunday, loaded our car with our dirty clothes, and drove to the laundry mat.
We lived in too small a room to have a washer or dryer.
We went to the mat early to avoid the crowds.
We went there every weekend for 12 years.
We became best friends with the elderly couple who owned the mat.
They were fun to be with; always joking about how I looked like the walking dead at 4 am.
When my wife and I finally could afford a house of our own, the couple who owned the laundry mat bought us a new washer and dryer as a gift.
I never forgot it.
I never shared this story before in public.
But as I relayed it to a friend, she urged me to share it with you.
I’m guessing you still struggle in some area, too.
My advice is to hang in there.
It took me a long time to achieve success, but persistence and optimism paid off.
If I can do it, you can do it.
If you want help, consider — http://www.MiraclesCoaching.com
Ao Akua,
joe
PS — Miracles are possible for you, too. Believe in yourself, believe in the future, and invest in your dreams. You can do it. http://www.MiraclesCoaching.com
“I beat you again, Google!”
It’s my favorite thing to say.
I’ve been beating Google virtually every day for well over a year now.
I shared my secret with a friend and he thought I should share it with the world.
Well, here goes:
Every day I go into my Google calendar and set my appointments and to-do lists for the next day.
Working out, calls, interviews, errands, etc., are all put into my Google calendar.
I also set timers to go off ten minutes before each task, sending me a text message to remind me of the activity.
Here’s what I do that I doubt few others do:
I intentionally try to get my task done before the Google text reminder alert goes off.
For example, in the morning, I get up, have my coffee, check my email, and head to the gym.
I give my all in an intense workout and then return inside to drink my protein shake and relax.
Right about then, the Google text alarm sounds off to remind me to go workout.
Since I already worked out, I feel I beat Google.
I look at my phone and exclaim, “I beat you, Google!”
It feels great!
I love this game!
Why is this so cool?
Every day I glance at my to-do list and do my best to complete each task before Google has a chance to remind me of each one.
In a way, I’m getting my brain to fire off chemicals of satisfaction.
Or, as Dr. Loretta Breuning might put it, I have controlled my brain rush.
Since my brain (and yours) wants to feel those happy chemicals spurt, I have created a little game to make it happen.
There’s a new book by Caroline Arnold called Small Move, Big Change, about microresoluting your life.
In a way, you set a small, doable goal to give yourself that feel good experience of accomplishment.
Rather than resolving to do something big — like lose 10 pounds this month — you micro-resolve to do something today — like go workout — that is in the direction of the bigger goal.
The little wins give you the brain rush you need to feel good and realize you are moving in the right direction.
Bill Phillips taught me about the value of “a win” every day.
I’ve heard Bill say there are days where he “needs a win.”
Those are the days where you might be tempted to think life is stacked in everyone else’s favor.
Instead of feeling like a victim, and spinning off the ledge into some sort of self hatred or disappointment, you can set a micro-goal or micro-resolution, do it, and feel great again.
When I say I am going to do something, and I do it, I experience a “win” – and the chemical feel good brain rush that goes along with it.
It’s the same with my game to beat my own calendar in Google.
It’s simply a way to make getting stuff done fun, exciting and even addictive (in a positive sense).
I love hearing my phone alarm go off and I get to say, “I beat you again, Google!”
Ao Akua,
Joe
PS — My new album Reflection is an official bestseller in my self-help Healing Music singer-songwriter catalog. Hear samples and grab a copy of the CD (with a collectible booklet and free surprise gift) by clicking right here.